Create a Safe Haven - 28 Ways to Show Love and Honor

You are my hiding place. You will keep me out of trouble and surround me with songs that remind me I am free. [pause in His presence] Psalm 32:7 VOICE

When someone you love dies it feels like your warm blanket has been ripped off and you are standing in the middle of a winter storm. That’s how I felt when Bill woke up in Heaven. I was glad that he was no longer suffering. I was rejoicing that he could now walk and breathe and swallow. His glorified body was whole and he was healed.

A few weeks into the grieving process the reality of finances hit and it seemed like I might not be able to pay the mortgage on our house. That is when I decided to create the SAFE list. This was a list of people where I felt safe. They would tell me where their extra key was hidden and I would feel like I could walk in comfortably. I could open their refrigerator and get something to drink. I could poke around in their cupboards and make a peanut-butter-and-jelly sandwich. Do you have any of those safe people in your life?

I discovered that I had quite a few. While I so missed the warm squeeze of my hubby’s hand, my heart was warmed to know that if I should end up homeless I would have plenty of places to go where I could stay for 2 weeks (the length of time research says before you wear out your welcome).

I reached out to these friends to let them know that I considered them a safe haven. They were on my list. They said to come ahead and where the extra key was hidden.

Today I feel safe and very rich.

The good news is that I saw miraculous provision every single month. My house is now paid for and I get to rent it out to a young couple who is creating a safe haven for their three little precious daughters. God is faithful.

Active Expressions of Love and Honor:

  • Make a list of people like those described in the post

  • Write notes to those friends who are a safe haven for you

  • Pause for some moments of gratitude for your safety and comfort

Prayer

Thank you, Lord, for being our safe haven. Thank you that we can hide in You. I am so grateful that You provide those who can bless us in times of trouble. You are the true safe place. I love that You hug us and sing songs to remind us of who we are. We are free. We are safe in You. I pray for those who are mourning the death of someone they deeply love. Give them a safe haven. May they hear your singing over them. In Jesus’ name. Amen.